Sociopaths are identical and predictable.
Truly understanding the characteristics
of a sociopath changes everything.
It likely sounds dramatic, an impossibility, and maybe a bit like fear-mongering to say with calm confidence, oh that guy? He’s a sociopath. Or, she’s a sociopath. – The breaking news is, it is neither dramatic nor impossible.
It’s practical and sensible. It is scary. However, calmly knowing sociopaths exist and are real and what that means is huge key to how we unwind the damage of the sociopath-effect and unplug their influence.
Aren’t Sociopaths Only In the Movies?
I wish. The fact is, a sociopath is a real thing. A common reality. There are humans all around us who function from sociopathy. …And to confuse things even further, many people call them narcissists.
Though sociopath is a big scary word, the characteristics of a sociopath are really tiny and limited. And distinct.
There’s a good reason for this, a sociopath is a sociopath because they have a brain significantly different from the regular brain, that is from yours or mine.
Their brains under-function, so that they have no sensation or experience or feeling of connection. No sense of caring, genuine consideration, love, or even like for people outside of their own body. This pathology gives them very specific and unbelievable traits and qualities.
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Pathological vs Non-pathological
By now you’ve heard the word narcissist and maybe call the person who hauled you through hell a narcissist. The thing is a “narcissist” is most often a sociopath. If you’re thinking of them as a “narcissists” read about and research sociopaths for real answers.
There’s lots of material and many memes and so many Insta accounts that talk about the more mundane narcissistic person who is not pathological and who is not a scammer. If you found yourself in a life where you were working harder than you’ve ever worked to keep your life and their life afloat only to find it constantly sinking, you were ensnared by the pathological narcissist…. that is, a sociopath.
No Conscience, No Concern For You Or Anyone Else
Sociopaths are 100% narcissistic. They’re in your life for a reason that is not normal or genuine in any way. There’s no one more narcissistic on the planet than the sociopath… the antisocial psychopath aka sociopath or psychopath. Read here about why the clinical terminology uses the word “antisocial”.
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Sociopaths Are Real: And Simplistic in Nature
Though sociopath is a big scary word, the characteristics of a sociopath are really tiny and limited. And distinct. There’s a good reason for this: a sociopath is a sociopath because they have a brain significantly different from the regular brain… yours or mine.
Their brains are structured so that they have no sensation or experience of feeling any bonding, love, care, or consideration for other people — or animals. – They do pretend to.
The attachment or interest they display for others is where we begin to feel horrified because it’s not like ours. And it’s not good.
Other people hold no meaning to them aside from using that person for the sociopath’s personal gain. This means they’re what’s commonly called a con man or con artist, or scammer. And they come in male or female versions.
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Brain Scans Reveal the Sociopath, “Narcissist”, Psychopath Brain
There’s hard science to demonstrate the difference in their brains. Brain scans by neuroscientists reveal the portions of the brain attributed to feeling love, and compassion just doesn’t function.
There’s nothing we can recognize as normal once the mask hits the floor. So what is going on inside of them? There’s basically nothing there. Where love would be there’s white noise. The connection between themselves and others isn’t made of concern or care.
There’s Nobody Inside To Connect With
Though they can create what we first feel is intimacy and deep interest in us, calling what they put out towards us a real “connection” isn’t quite the thing. This is because they see us as an object to grab-and-smash; something like a natural resource they hold the rights to.
They truly believe that they have every right to make use of humans as you or I would make use of a vacuum cleaner or a blender to get something done.
The thing is, we care more about the well-being of our vacuum cleaner than a sociopath does about us or any other human. They make use of others in absolutely any way they like. The word, “exploitation” comes to mind.
This is really hard for us to believe. It’s humanly impossible to absorb in one single moment the reality that there are people who look human, just like us, but are missing the “humanity chip”. Taking this in is a process.
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We Are Not Responsible for The Predator’s Inhumanity
People without a conscious are bereft of good as if they’ve scorched the very roots of goodness within their own lives. They aren’t “choosing” to not care; this in itself would come from a place of caring. They have no place of caring within them. These are people who embed themselves into people’s lives to take, to use, and to do whatever they want. This is their real “work” whether they have an actual paycheck or not.
Jennifer Smith, True Love Scam Recovery
How Do Sociopaths (aka Narcissists aka Psychopaths) Do What They Do?
When individuals operate without a conscience they are able to do horrible things we would never dream of doing, and there is no moral compass or guilt feelings to stop them.
Dr. Deborah Ettel, PhD Psychology
The Sociopath Effect Is Inevitable
In order to hook, use and take from targets, (that would be you or I, just regular people) every sociopath uses the same little tricks and misleads and lies. This takes effect in one-on-one relationships, in romantic or work situations, towards religious leaders or politicians; anywhere you find and admire or like someone who is a sociopath this hook will take hold.
Where ever there’s a sociopath in a group, a family, or an organization. The predator gets busy in a true love faux-lationship or superior-acolyte in any setting. The arc of hell and the crazy plays out in five stages. Always, and also in every one of these set-ups.
This Is The Only Way It Goes
There’s no deviation from this pattern of hook and use and break-away. It might be carried out over five days or 50 years with any particular morsel of prey — but there’s no variation in the way a sociopath functions or affects prey.
Everything they do and say is in an effort to make use of those around them is for their survival. We are their livelihood. This survival is dependent upon us believing they’re normal. This is not easy for us to see. It takes time and taking in a new perspective to see this thing we never imagined existed.
Our experience with them is traumatic and so is coming to terms with what they are. Not all trauma is bad!
Sociopaths are Identical, Predictable and Severely Limited
So many give credit to the sociopath as a master manipulator, a genius liar. I beg to differ. It’s time to look again from another angle, so we can stop giving them the power. They claim to be amazing and talented geniuses — and we do at first see them as masterly wizards of manipulation and at the antics that they pull.
In reality, sociopaths have very limited thinking. They are severely limited, have specific thinking and feelings, and have no other way to think or feel.
What they feel as raw emotions is desire or need, and then glee when they get what they want, anger when it’s threatened or taken away, rage when their scam is being seen through or put to an end, and fear. They have a great fear of being exposed which fuels endless rage at being caught or exposed.
How Would the One You’re Wondering About Do On This Test?
Answer these very basic questions that lead to an estimation of whether someone is a sociopath aka a psychopath… or that person you’re calling a “narcissist”. I
After all, never forget, understanding what you’re facing isn’t about diagnosing them… this discovery serves the purpose of finding your safety, keeping your sanity, and restoring your well-being.
They Lose it When They Lose
If they’re at risk of exposure they lose it; when exposed they risk not getting what they want or getting away with it they become wild-cornered animals.
They frantically and erratically hop from one tactic to another trying to get their house of cards back in place. They come up with elaborate stories, fake illnesses, disappear, kill, cry spontaneous sheets of tears… rage and threaten and blackmail (like, if I lose, I’ll leave the United States…). The nearer they are to losing it all, the more they lose it.
The profound fear they live with is one of the things they don’t want us to realize about them. If their fear was not incredibly deep, why would they rage so when we get close to the truth?
Confusion is The Vibe
The reason we feel so confused is that this is nothing like anything we’ve known before. And… It isn’t anything we can see by using the way we normally think to look at it.
The whole mess is a fake-lationship. A faux-lationship. We think we’re in a real relationship; the sociopath knows it’s not a real mutual human relationship.
Sociopaths do their best to embed themselves into people’s lives in order to take, use, make use of us, and do whatever they want in that person’s life. Making these attempts and making this effort is how they spend every single day; this is their “work”. It’s how they survive.
This Kind of Con Brings Post Traumatic Stress
As a confused and hurt person trying to find answers, to decipher what’s going on, understanding the characteristics of a sociopath lets us see from an angle that supports our understanding. This also saves our mental and emotional – as well as physical – health and allows for healing.
It’s not easy to fully comprehend and takes time to see it, but the fact is, we’re nothing more than a piece of equipment or an object to the sociopath. Beyond that, we’re despised and held in contempt.
This is so hard to grasp because we’re fully human. We love and support those we love; we don’t view them as expendable resources. Sociopaths are the antithesis of loving and giving; they only take and as the fallout of their taking, destruction is all they bring to the table.
A Sociopath Can Be Anywhere: The Park, A Party, at Work
Because pathological users are anywhere we might be, we need to learn how to recognize them. Their real power when you think about it is that we can’t recognize them and so not be affected by them.
Sociopaths exist in every social, regional, and economic realm. Most crave riches with insatiable desire. Paradoxically they can handle living in a box on the side of the road until the next target with a nice warm nest comes along. Why…? It’s the result of having no emotional connection to things, people, or places.
Without any emotional connection aside from holding someone up to measure if that person – seen as an object – fits into their needs – and every one of us has something they need – sociopaths are isolated and isolating in their effect.
Pathological Parasites Are Anywhere We Might Be
Predatory parasites dwell in trailer parks in Wyoming, on ski slopes in the Alps, in board rooms across the world, within the profiles of online dating sites, at church, in bars and clubs, in the grocery store, at the dog park.
Sociopaths hunt prey in the workplace, on Facebook, in chat forums, at a party. We can meet them at the grocery store, in line at the post office, getting gas or through friends.
It’s said one-in-25 people are sociopaths and are either male or female. We’ve all heard the phrase: hiding in plain sight. We’ve got to change how we “see” – our “sight” – they’re plain as day.
20 Characteristics of a Sociopath
- Fun, charming, and entertaining. Super polite when meeting new people
- Display impressive knowledge or skill at something. This proves to be limited or fake
- Have a primal perception as far as what concerns us, what we need, and depend upon; this is used to make false promises, to make deals, and to blackmail
- Are easily offended. They fluster and bluster when offended and lash out
- Lie about all things – except those odd moments they tell the truth
- Believe they’re better than everyone. Express misogynistic, racist, homophobic, or other prejudice and hatred
- Crave a good reputation
- Crave status, power, possessions, money, yet exist at any level of society
- Have delusions of fame and importance, though they might live in the Metro station
- Mimic our authentic emotions and social mannerisms as best they can
- Have no capacity for care, concern, or love, though it sometimes seems they do
- Think of themselves as victims and can cry fake tears at the drop of a hat
- Are sexually promiscuous and often simultaneously avoid sex with a primary prey; someone they’ve put in place as a primary “partner”
- Do any horrible, illegal, or immoral thing they want to do and to absolutely anyone.
- Think their prey (partners, spouses, girlfriends, etc.) should be grateful
- Take pride in their scams and run several scams simultaneously
- Believe everyone deserves whatever it is that they do to them
- Smear their targets and prey; loudly, publicly, online in court
- Have outbursts of rage, that can be physically violent.
- All of them know they are monsters; they are proud of it and enjoy it.
There’s Much More
Since their state of mind is based on the limited and abnormal brain that makes someone a sociopath, there are more characteristics that are identical sociopath to sociopath.
You wouldn’t be the only one to discover porn, beyond porn – and their participation in shocking sexual practices. They avoid paying taxes, skip paying child maintenance altogether in cases of divorce, and cheat at absolutely everything. Even if they seem successful career-wise, you’ll find they don’t do their own work if you scratch the surface. Even with seemingly legit employment they ultimately live off of others’ lives, others’ efforts, finances, respectability, and magnanimity.
Discovering the Reality of a Sociopath is Trauma in Itself
In the world of psychology, they’re called antisocial psychopaths, or sociopaths. And lately as having an antisocial personality disorder. This newer contemporary term diminishes the damage they do and casts them in the light of hapless wrong-doer.
They’re not innocents suffering from a disorder. They know they cause harm. With pleasure and pride, they do terrible things to people. – Another delay in finding what we’re really facing is getting hung up on terminology and ideas of “narcissists”.
Bragadocious: Sociopaths Talk a Lot, a Super-de-Duper Lot
Sociopaths can’t help themselves from bragging. They like to chatter about the things they do. . These elaborate boasts represent their made-up life. It’s all lies. The traits and tricks of a sociopath never waver.
They’re consistent with all their prey whether in pursuit for ten days or we’re captive for ten years or 30 years. It’s the same for each of us from the first “hello”, to the way they break up with us.
In popular culture, movies, and books sociopaths are referred to as con artists or con men. In real life, they are strictly Mr. Hyde with a very shallow cover of Dr. Jekyll.
Lies Are Real, And Real Made Up
Sociopaths lie easily. Lying is normal for them. They feel no guilt or shame about lying. If one lie doesn’t work they whip out another one. They know they lie. For the pathological, lies make up what’s real, and real is made up. How’s that for mind-bending?
Since they are not connected to the world, to their own life to anything through emotions in the way that we are, sociopaths forget what they say one moment to another moment, and can only manage the moment in front of them.
Consequently, we can lie to them, they can know that we’re probably lying, and yet, they act on the lie as if it’s the truth.
Lying is Due to Their Pathology
The sociopath (or that person you might be calling a narcissist) lies in a way that’s called “pathological”. This means that lying comes as a result of their brain. In other words, they can’t not lie. They do not get better or change.
At this point in time in the history of humankind, there is no known “cure.” They wouldn’t want to “get better” or “be better” if they could. They enjoy every minute of what they are. They adore themselves while knowing full well that they’re monsters.
The sociopath’s ruse is deception upon deception. Since people are seen as objects, they are disposable to the sociopath. It’s hard to say, but not all allow their prey to live to tell the tale.
Dr. Deborah Ettel, Phd Psychology
There’s Nothing a Sociopath Won’t Do
The characteristics of a sociopath include pride in the things they do. They consider nabbing prey an achievement. They’re boastful and feel great, and an exaggerated gleeful accomplishment in scamming, lying, taking, stealing, using, and worse.
Remember the exciting, exhilarating start to all the mess? Recall when they have that grin…and are sparked and energized? – It’s an exhibit of the glee and sense of pride they feel for capturing you.
They make off-handed comments that reveal their inner workings. Knowing the characteristics of a sociopath exposes them for what they are and includes eventually, being able to see them as boring and even laughable. Only when we don’t recognize them or we believe them do we find ourselves ensnared.
Power of Influence: Truth and Lies
In these flashing moments of truth our heads spin. The truth always stands out. But in the confusing, bizarre world of the con, actual truth only cuts a fleeting crack in the lunacy and looks like lunacy itself.
A sociopath’s influence has us doubt the truth, and be soothed by their lie. Sociopaths influence us in such a way, that it’s natural for us to defend and protect their lies.
It’s All Traumatic
All in all, anytime we spent in the presence of a sociopath, wasn’t what we thought it was. There’s never any mutual moment aside from maybe sitting down to eat because both of us want a good dinner.
Any limbic-brained person in the presence of a sociopath in any dynamic such as a personal relationship of love, of family members, of neighbor and neighbor or boss and employee or coworker… they all involve sustained trauma and harm and a period of PTSD in the aftermath.
Why they’re at dinner with us, is not the same reason we’re at dinner with them. We were targeted and hijacked for the sociopath’s own use.
We Can Recover After Breaking Up with a Narcissistic Sociopath
The most devastating thing a sociopath creates is disunity. Disunity from self and from others we love…from others in general. Even a sense of separation from others we don’t know shrouds us as our life shuts down and closes into a very small thing centered on them and appeasing them. We end up in a spinning place of off-kilter confusion, more than walking on eggshells.
Like any normal human would without positive connection and unity, in isolation and separation we get lost. We can bring ourselves back. We reunite with ourselves, with all and everyone around us. Recovering from this trauma takes non-judgemental support and encouragement.
With accurate and true information and understanding of what a sociopath is – and what we are as gorgeous, loving humane, human beings, we can heal and get our lives back. We can trust again, laugh again, and love again.
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How do I deal with my son’s father who is a sociopath. I think my son would want less time with him and want to prepare for that. I’ve been taking notes and am screening a therapist this tuesday. I myslef am a therapist and know that therapist as lawyers, don’t know the true nature of the sociopath unless they’ve been in relationship with one. Do you have any referrals in the Los Angeles area for child therapists who specialize in antisocial personality? Thank you!!
I have a great attorney referral, one who absolutely gets it and is incredibly clever in his ability to maneuver and manage the sociopath out of our lives legally: Kurt Bier, at Kurt Bier Law, 213-344-4677 -Tell him I sent you, Jennifer Smith from True Love Scam Recovery. I’m also starting a group in LA in addition to the one-on-one phone sessions. I don’t know any therapists specifically for children going through exposure to a sociopath parent. I can ask around to my psychologist and therapist friends… I see you’ve sent an email as well. I can reply with mail if I locate one.
Do you think it’s possible for a person who has never been this way to one day being this way from trauma to the brain. Trauma caused from a fall, car accident, stroke etc…?
It’s unlikely an accident or a fall could render someone a sociopath. There are two conclusions as to how sociopaths develop: 1) they are born with abnormal brains, 2) severe psychological abuse causes the brain abnormality. From personal research and experience, I’m of the “born with brain abnormalities” camp.
I feel like warning these other people he´s meeting. they´re near some of my friends. but i am sure they´d say i am crazy, he worked their minds already..
Claudia, That’s a normal feeling to have… we all think that. In some cases we have to contact others to get information for divorce, annulment or other legal things. – Sometimes we just plain do it – and that’s okay… BUT there is something very significant to consider before doing so. We can create risk for ourselves as well. If the other women / men / targets are at all even slightly still into him, or have any contact whatsoever with him – they will tell him we contacted them and tell him what we say. At that point we become a threat to the sociopath. Sociopaths only care about two things: getting what they want and not being exposed, caught or held responsible. They do anything to make sure these two things happen. – They care about nothing else – even consequences of being caught or held responsible for the harm they cause does not phase them in all cases enough to hold them back. — In no way are we to defend ourselves to any of their targets or to anyone that the sociopath tells we’re crazy… This is a basic “always” that every sociopaths does about all targets – and yes – we look crazy defending ourselves to others who are currently fans of the sociopath – unaware of course, that they themselves are nothing but targets as well.
I’ve just been dating who I’m now learning is a sociopath. Love bombed into thinking it was real then just before Christmas he claimed his father was ill and he had to rush to Italy. The lie continued and escalated to “he’s had a stroke” to “im hoping he wakes up from the surgery” to “he’s now dying.” But things weren’t adding up. The lie upped when I was starting to show my annoyance at being ignored. I’d get I’m so sorry and hearts and kisses. Stupidly I thought he carrel, he was merely keeping face and enjoying the ride.
Thoughout I’ve been sending him support messages with no response, imaginging him at his poor father’s bed side. I started to get on to his true behaviour when I wanted my computer back after two months. He ignored me and I had to send a courier to his work.
On searching his work address and his name I found a) he didn’t work for a place he said he managed b) that he has been named in many model blogs as the shark behind the biggest model scamming agency – the ones that claim you need a portfolio that costs grands.He’s been using model credit cards fraudulently too.
Since he started the lies he disappeared off all social media and still has when he was always really active – showing off his photography and him with models – of course !!
I’m devastated to think he lied. My Christmas was a mess and I’m left feeling so vulnerable and stripped. I went for dinners etc on these poor scammed people’s money. Feel sick that this conman was in my house.
But I’ll rebuild and my eyes are now wide open. Just wish I could save the next victim he gets his hands on.
Emma, you are AMAZING and AWESOME. – So sorry you were hijacked. Welcome to the best place on earth for recovery and finding out how to be sociopath free forever. All sociopaths are identical. Everything you’re feeling is normal right now. Sending insight, wisdom and healing.
All of this is so true. You may read the signs but do a double take because you think, ” no well he cries to me and this just can’t be happening to me”. They are so manipulative.. ugh I can’t believe this happened to me. And I’m a psych major so I knew something was off from the get go (thank God it’s only been 2 months) but dang they are so good at mind fking you :/
Yah, the manipulation comes in as a result of our two very different brains colliding. – Once we recognize what a sociopath is, we can see them any where they might be out in the world, on the bus, in a market, at a party. Then they have no chance.
#13. Are sexually promiscuous and often simultaneously avoid sex with a primary partner. Why is this?
Because they have no emotional positive attachment or bonding feelings – sex is not part of a human connection that is wholesome or healthy or joyful or loving. Their bodies/brains absolutely do not feel this. So sex is a tool and a high. Withholding sex from people makes them want someone they are in a relationship with more… it draws out the desire to resolve differences. It creates a kind of bonding-in-crisis if you will – until it doesn’t, because this doesn’t last for long. — Also sociopaths are simply busy with other, newer scams and targets so sex goes to them rather than people they have in the bag already. — They can have and do have sex with multiple people in the same week or month who don’t know about each other and with absolutely any one they want to have sex with. — They also tend to have porn addictions and / or what in general would be considered deviant sexual habits and proclivities including violence, animals and under age “partners.”
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You have described my experience of over twenty years with a con man Sociopath.
I am going to save your article for reference. I have not been able to explain my situation to anyone as clearly as you have explained it in this post.
I thank you. My attorney will thank you. I will refer to this often when I need to explain what happened to me, the depth of betrayals are so difficult to describe, until I read this.
Sigh. Yes…. Sociopaths are each identical and – so also predictable. Their limited minds, without emotional depth or nuance leaves them all using the same tactics and have only two thoughts in their heads: To Take & To Not Get Caught. They will do or say anything to anyone to achieve this. – There’s nothing else inside them aside from the endless contempt they have for all others. They have no understanding that comes from emotional connection this is another source of their brutality. They know nothing but a very limited stark world. Take. Get. Glee and contempt at winning something. A high from the scam. Lose. Rage. Hate. ~ Sending you joy, courage and happiness.
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So true…all so creepy and alike.
Oooooh, Yes!!! Revolting. And — nothing. Just lies.
All this is what I find to be true. The sociopath I know wrote a personals ad in which he described himself as a nice guy who doesn’t hurt anyone (in reality, he chokes and threatens), and he describes himself as a victim. And yesterday I searched through his Facebook posts and I am astounded that a human being could possibly be that delusional and grandiose. I know the truth about him, and he writes these posts which are way out of the realm of reality about how good he thinks he is. He recently committed sexual battery against a woman, and had two charges of battery against police (remember, he is so non-violent), and he had a charge of destruction of property. The judges always let him off of every crime and did so again. I plan on doing a youtube channel and bringing up examples of his facebook posts and compare what he thinks he is to what he really is. I’d show a Facebook post about how he is so peaceful and loving, then I would pull up protection orders people had to get again him because he choked them. I have a whole suitcase of evidence so I believe I really could make some very good youtube videos. I just don’t know how deep I want to dive into that darkness.
Yep. All exactly the tactics and methodology of a sociopath – though all are not violent as a pattern of controlling their targets they all do have uncontrollable rage that inevitably comes up somewhere in their career as scammers. – I like your last consideration: “I just don’t know how deep I want to dive into that darkness.” – I would imagine the answer you’ll arrive at is: “Not at all.” — Sociopaths are not like us – incredibly obvious, but it can’t be stated enough as we come out of the shock and ptsd, that they have abnormal brains and so their actions are not motivated by anything other than “want” and “not getting caught”. They don’t think rationally or have any guilt or conscience to stop them in their malevolent – and largely improvisational – antisocial behavior. – They have zero compassion, and no emotional attachment to anyone on the face of the earth.- They are fully aware that they’re – well – monsters. They love it. – They play victim to appear innocent and to garner empathy; they represent themselves as non-violent, benevolent humanitarians to gain trust and appear innocent. If male sociopaths marry it’s to appear normal and respectable and have children for the same reason – in reality its to have legal access to money, property and countries. – Female sociopaths marry for the same reasons, but where male sociopaths abandon the children, females who give birth in a marriage will try to use the kids as a ticket to alimony and child support. — All sociopaths fight, hit hard and strike out in unbelievable, inconceivable ways against anyone who attempts to ruin their reputation, expose them, or do something that may lead to their arrest and criminal charges. Rage as a control tactic. — They are never happy. They tend to die young and alone or violently. — Heal. Thrive. Be joyful.
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I’ve read 1 in 100 and also read 1 in 25… It seem sit depends on the population type – Cities may be more densely populated with sociopaths and the corporate world is as well. – But you know – how can they measure them all? It could be more.
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Mine even told the “other women” that he was a good liar and wouldn’t get caught.
They’re sooo full of themselves! They always get caught. And I’m thinking the comment he made to her sounds like one of the bizarre comments sociopaths sprinkle in their game revealing something true about themselves – and: inviting us to join their game.
I hope she realizes that he will be using this “skill” with her as well.
Hopefully, we never know how long the other women the sociopath snared will under their spell. Some we can alert, some we can’t. We really need to focus on healing ourselves. Personally for me it was about 50/50 the ones who rejectd vs the ones who took the warning before I had to stop trying to clean up after him.
Thanks, jessieblue! Glad to hear this is helping!
This list is spot on!