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Narcissistic Rage: Inside the Anger

Narcissistic sociopaths rage so that we don’t see
through them and catch them out.

This ironically gives them away.

Narcissistic rage is frightening. And further puzzling and more frightening is that our normal behavior sparks the narcissistic rage. In the beginning, it seems like a dream…beyond a perfect dream, but this soon fades away and spirals into confusion. And lots of anger from them. Why are they so mad…?

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Recovery Coaching: You Decide

Recovery Beyond Any Other: Restore Your Life

Recovery Beyond Any Other: Restore Your Life

Do my articles
books, or podcast
resonate with you?

Then recovery coaching
with me
is likely a great fit.

Together, we unwind
the confusion
and take back your life.

What do others who were in your shoes
say about recovery coaching with me?

  • Each session is unique to you and your circumstances and needs.
  • Puzzle pieces you didn’t know were missing fall into place.
  • Every time we talk you’ll experience shifts and clarity that support restoring your life.
  • Session notes, takeaway methods, and exercises support your recovery.
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I don’t think I would be where I am if I hadn’t found you and learned from you, and I’m still learning. Thanks for all you are doing to raise awareness of these monsters. ~ J.S.

After our first session, I was left feeling very empowered, and I’m excited to continue the conversation! You’re one of the only people out there who understands this like this; I think maybe you’re the only person. You have a way of simplifying the pieces and elements. I’m very glad to have talked to you. ~ G.D.

As a certified professional coach upholding industry standards and ethics, I strive to inform, educate, co-plan, co-strategize, advise, consult, refer, recommend, train, teach and coach people in guided discovery-recovery specific to these crimes, and from hell and broken in the aftermath to whole again, and more.

Heal, recover, trust again: it’s all possible.

As a certified coach and as someone who’s lived through this nightmare and won, I can tell you, there’s nothing wrong with you; there’s everything right with you.

Sessions are a guided journey at your pace through discovery building a deep and expanding recovery. In a combination of questions, information, dialogue, guidance, and coaching together we unwind the tangled mess clearing your way out of the emotional, mind-bending maze.

No two sessions are alike. The dialogues are unique and coaching is improvisational based on where you are and inspired by your needs, your personality, and what’s important to you.

We begin from where you are and find the way to
where you want to be.
Each session is unique to you.

Together we map your way out of hell.
Session notes and summaries become a reminder and guide.

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Here’s to REAL True Love and Happiness!

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Privacy, Security and Finances After a Narcissist or Sociopath

After a sociopath or narc
blows through your world, privacy really matters.
You can remain anonymous and get your life back.

Privacy and anonymity matter after a narc or sociopath rampages through our life. Go full no contact and get off marketing call lists too! And… raise your credit score after they trashed it.

Let’s be real. In the aftermath, our PTSD minds are filled with fear. There’s a time period of terror after the sociopath is gone, and after no contact, we’re still spooked. For sure. Maybe for a while, that’s okay. It’s also normal. And honestly, caution is wise and reasonable.

Privacy now becomes a real issue that may have been very much on the back burner before we were burned by a sociopath or narcissist. Here’s how we can keep our privacy and still participate in the digital world.

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5 Stages of True Love Scam

We think it’s love but fall into a world of hell.
A hell that for all its pain, we can recover from.

True love scam as a reality – beyond scary movies and television shows – is coming into focus like never before. How bizarre it feels to know something’s wrong, something needs to be fixed but you can’t pinpoint what it is or name it.

Finding yourself in a relationship nightmare as I did in 2012, you likely whipped out your laptop or smartphone to google away for answers. This search for information begins for most of us when you’re feeling that something’s wrong, yet you can’t put your finger on it, and nothing you do changes it, or makes things better.

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Post Holiday Blues: PTSD Bites

Things looking bleak, feeling uninspired,
and just plain worse?

Holiday cheer can turn to holiday blahs
and intermingle with PTSD.

Post “Holiday Season” there’s special brand of the blues that can hit us in our heart and soul. Even mid-holiday season, our emotions can take a nosedive. Though not much is said about it, for most people feel a lag in our energy and inspiration after the holidays. And this year… geez louise.

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Sociopaths Sex Lives: A Hotbed of Lies

Sociopaths’ sex lives are rumored as “great”.
In real life, they’re a hotbed of lies and cognitive dissonance.

Sociopaths’ sex lives are integral to their game. In other words, sex is a major tool in the sociopath’s kit. Not to mention what a tool every sociopath is if you’ll pardon the pun… Sociopaths sex lives are robust, filled with many, many, just a whole-lotta people that they’re preying upon, and all at the same time.

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Am I Dating a Sociopath?


Dating someone a little odd..?
Surrounded by a foggy state of confusion?
This is a sign that you’re dating a sociopath.

By the time we’re wondering if the guy or girl we’re dating is a sociopath, this thought has floated to the surface of our conscious mind because things are bad… right?

This idea rises up to our conscious mind from some space in our gut. In my experience, it isn’t a thought I put together but almost a voice fomr soemwhere else in my body. This occurs because we’re feeling icky and are seeking an answer. A kind of indescribable icky feeling is often the precursor to the unconscious voice of the gut. We’re feeling unhappiness, and an unsettled, sinking feeling and we’ve discovered this uneasiness stems from them.

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3 Easy Online Exercise Gurus

Easy online exercise became an obsession with me in the last week or so. – It was that or maybe have a heart attack on the couch with my cheese and crackers.

Perhaps for you, it’s cookies… me, I’m a savory gal savoring a bit too much these days. And I admit it… I’ve been dragging my feet on the exercise front on and off for six years now since I booted the conman out.

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Sociopaths Cannot Devalue Us

Our worth is not in their hands.
They don’t devalue us; they can’t.
These clowns didn’t value us to begin with.
Repeat: our worth is not in their hands
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Devalue us…? There’s a popular lexicon delineating the ride with these jokers. It’s said they: love bomb, idealize, devalue then discard us. It sure feels like we were tossed out as last week’s rotting garbage, but.

What if there’s another way to think about this gut wrenching occurrence? One that helps us heal? What if there’s another angle that sets us free? Or are we going to let them hold all the cards? Do our emotions and feelings really explain what they were doing?

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PTSD After a Sociopath

Weeping in despair, grief. Confusion.
A shattered life. Depression and self doubt. Isolation.
This heap of feelings and thoughts and questions
are the beginning of restoration.

We can heal even the PTSD after a sociopath or what many call a narcissist. It includes emotions rolling over us in grand sweeps and simmering cess pools. These turn to feelings and thoughts that are untrue. There’s a is terror in PTSD others around can’t us usually can’t understand… We might not understand it ourselves.

You owe it to yourself to realize what this PTSD is, how it shows up, how to heal and rebalance yourself, and that it’s okay to be in a sate of post truama so that we can restore our gorgeous selves.

Altogether it’s loneliness and fears and doubts that are not the new you but can seem like it. There are many signs of PTSD, but the initial stages are most described by one word.

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