Testimony and Thanks

There are so many wonderful,
amazing people writing and messaging with thanks,
and kind words, we added another page to share them from.

I love, love, love your website. It has been the ‘realest’ explanation of this cr@p I’ve encountered yet. ~ T.B.

Thank you for all you do. I’m so grateful for your page (True Love Scam Recovery Facebook Page) and advice. x ~ Z.D.

Great article for clarification!!! This has helped me understand better!!! Thank you!!! ~ D.K.”Why Are Sociopaths Called Antisocial?‘

Thank you! This is exactly what I went through dating a sociopath. The fluid sexuality, the control, the love bombing, the alcohol addiction, the anger at every perceived offense, faking illness, cheating with multiple women, charming, lying, all of it. This is one of the most accurate things I have read in description of the behaviors. “D.I.Y. Guide to a Sociopath’s Psyche” ~ Anonymous

What a fantastic blog. I’ve recently been conned and was searching for a behavioral term for this con man and voila your blog has me walking in the same footsteps. Every word, every statement of yours gets me thinking the person who conned us has this characteristic. Am glad I’m able to connect with someone who knows what I have been going through and how I need to solve the issue. The characteristics of a con man / sociopath are so well explained I don’t have the go anywhere for more explanation. Thanks for sharing. ~ M.

Thank you! This helped me so much! Two months ago I ended a sick relationship with my Narcissistic “girlfriend”. What a pathological liar. ~ V.P., Male reader

Nicely done! I hope many folks in recovery or wanting relief find their way back to you for help. ~ M.S.

I’m incredibly relieved to have found this site. ~ M.M.

I love reading your web page, stumbled upon it today, finally after 10 years I can finally see I was involved with a sociopath and it all makes perfect sense..makes it so much easier to understand things…thank you. ~ S.M.

Oh, my goodness. Your article called, “Are Sociopaths Intelligent?“ is unbelievably hilarious and extremely eye opening giving a clear visual and conceptual understanding of how there monsters operate. Very, very insightful reading. A perfect picture to keep in mind helping me un-tether and diminish the emotional connection I have to the “pig”. God bless you and your work. ~ J.F.P.

I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your information and clear insight into the actions of the sociopath towards their “girlfriend”. I’ve suffered at the hands of what I’m now certain, thanks to you, is a sociopath for two years now. It’s been a hellish roller coaster, in which I’ve searched for reasons for his behavior. Sadly I’ve never quite found a definitive answer until recently when I allowed myself to wonder if he might be a narcissist or a sociopath. I’ve read lots of articles but wasn’t sure. Then I read yours and it was like you wrote my life. ~ D.C.

This is the most accurate spot-on article yet! A must read! Thank you! ~ N.P. “5 Reasons the Sociopath Nut-Bag Isn’t Hovering”

Great article. I was storing the crap and one day I decided no more. I’m down to one more garbage pick up for all the crap he left. Whatever could be donated went to the charity shop. This article is very, very helpful. Don’t want any contact with him and it feels sooooo good not to have to look at anything that would remind me of him. ~ M.C.S. “What Am I Supposed to Do With All This Junk?“

Holy cow those articles are helpful! This: “They do their best to let us believe that rather than a clash, we’re the best match on the planet. The best fit that any two people could ever be” – I’d like our session on Friday, thanks so much!!! Thanks!! What a blessing to not be alone in this nightmare. ~ A.S.

Are sociopaths smarter than the average empath or neurotypical person? Nope. – Thanks to true love scam for writing and sharing such pro-social articles. ~ K.S. “Are Sociopaths Intelligent?”

I love everything you write and some parts of this just stand out to me and I have to highlight it. Again, thank you for being my voice putting everything into words. It’s life saving! ~ M.D.

Thank you for educating me on another level. Boy, do I wish I was spending my time studying Italian instead of educating myself on the mind of a Sociopath. LOL! We become obsessed and I’m lucky that my closest friends and family understand that it’s my focus and my recovery to talk endlessly about what happened to me. It’s been a tough ride, but I’m so much better. Thank you for your wisdom. ~ T.S.

Thanks for your website, cannot believe that I stayed with my husband for 17 years. I barely made my break two weeks ago. Your website has been amazingly educational for me and my husband is textbook! Thank you for taking the time to email with me! Your website has been more than helpful! ~ A.N.

Thank you very much for this priceless resource. You have helped me immensely. ~ S.L.

Thank You for your posts! The horrors that were my 18 year marriage to an affluent, successful, respected monster are real…but only to my children, myself and truelovescam! Reading your posts has made me feel that there is recovery, it just takes time. Thank You Jennifer! ~ C.L.

Thank you, I found your article very helpful. “There Really Are Monsters” ~ J.L.

Thank you, Jennifer for your emails and all the hard work you have done to help others and bring this crime to light. ~ C.

Thank you so much for your kind words and your support! “Sociopaths Sex Lives“, on your website put a lot of my anxiety to rest. Your description of what we go through is extremely accurate – “crimes” is hands down the best word for it. ~ A.S.

Wow – your articles are spot on – really useful and to the point. ~ E.G. “Dating After Dating a Sociopath“

This is so helpful. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate this. He has taken my soul as well as my money. What is so amazing was how in love with me he was just telling me and now he is gone and I can’t get in touch with him. I am stopping begging him now after your email. Thank you so much! ~ C.

Excellent writing, accurate information! Thank you! ~ E.

I spent so much time on your blog last night. You are amazing! Thank you! You have given me peace in my mind and soul. ~ L. P.

I have just gotten out of a 4 year relationship with a sociopath. I have read many articles, blogs, etc. since getting him out of my house and yours is by far, the most accurate and realistic experiences of dealing with a sociopath. Well written, good advice, and very encouraging. ~ K.M.

…and more from K.M…Thank you for your encouragement. I think I have read your entire blog : ) Your blog is truly valuable and reassuring to those of us that are trying to figure out what just happened to us! ~ K.M.

Thanks for your replay. What you say is so true and spot on. This site is brilliant it’s the key to the door that has opened to save me. I thought it was me. I thought I was doing things wrong. Yet it wasn’t me. I keep reading and rereading and I go from a sort of euphoria as another question gets answered to all the nasty behaviour to feeling depressed and nauseous in the next breath. What I find truly amazing is that they seem to all behave in the same way these sociopaths. I thought my ex was truly unique and special yet on reading all this she was just following some perverse twisted set of behaviours of her kind. It’s like finding out the person you loved and trusted turned out to be a monstrous vampire. ~ B. C., Male reader

“What Is No Contact?” Thank you so very much for these articles and the reinforcement they bring when going No Contact. Your explanations give me strength to stay the course and remember who I tried to relate to. A narcissist/ sociopath is king of manipulation and charm to get the supply he wants. Blessings and Appreciation. ~ L.W.

Hi, Thank you Jennifer. I love your directness and honesty. It is very good for me! By the grace of God I found your blog on Google. It has saved my life. Thank you so much. ~ A.P.

This is an excellent distinction! “Narcissist vs. Sociopath vs. Happy” I found you 7 years after my escape from a sociopath, and I can’t express how healing your posts have been for me. I thought I had processed it all, but this FB page has offered me so much validation and multiple ‘aha’ moments. Thank you for what you do. You are helping so many people. ~ S.W.

You’re dead on with your information. So encouraging & helpful. I just started therapy, I’m up to session number two & was just sent home with information about PTSD. Who would have ever thought this could go hand-in-hand. Thank you so much! ~ A.S.

Hi! I just wanted to let you know how much I am LOVING your page. Unfortunately, I’m now a part of this sisterhood. I’ve lived my entire life without ever having crossed paths with one of these creatures and had no bloody idea what they even were. Thank you so much. Your content is not only incredibly insightful, but it’s so blunt and in-your-face that it really helped to wipe out any remnants of cognitive dissonance I was experiencing. Don’t know where you live, but if you’re ever in Philly, please message let me know. Dinner on me! ~ A.B.

This is so good…this helps me to reset and reframe. I’ve found myself regressing a bit lately and thinking “How could he have done all of that to me, after everything I did for him?!” and having bouts of sadness again after months of being ok. Thank you. ~ L.L.

Thank you, Jennifer! Your words are soothing and motivating. Much Love to You! ~ G.

Thank you! You are really a breath of fresh air in this hell I have been going through. Your knowledge and candor and sense of humor about these horrible people and situations is refreshing. I thought I knew about these people after an ex husband and two boyfriends then running into some scammers on the net. Thanks to your site I was able to recognize the scammers and not get caught up in it. So thank you from the bottom of my heart! ~ M.

You are doing an AMAZING job of educating and stop/help prevent victims from falling prey… NO CONTACT and setting yourself free is the only way to save yourself. God Bless You! ~ R.D.O.

As usual thank you for an pin point accurate understanding of the abuse from a Sociopath…..Bless You☺ ~ L. “Emotional Abuse and Sociopaths”

Thank you!! Every read helps!!! ~ T.C.

Your blog is very well done and critically important to prevent future scams…helping prevent more trauma and tragedy. Hard to say, but you are lucky you made it out alive. The sociopaths ruse is deception upon deception. Since people are objects they are disposable to the sociopath. Not all allow their prey to live to tell the tale. Thank you for your courage, commitment and hard work. Your work may save lives. ~ Dr. Deborah Ettel, PhD. Psychology

Thank you for sharing this information. 2 years escaped and I’m still learning recovering from a sociopathic ex. ~ E.S.

While on my journey of healing I joined a couple of private support groups. Many in the group are discovering the secret sex life of the sociopath and have been confused by the possibility of their X being – well gay. In my darkest moments your blog helped because of the laser truth written in a way that is very easy to take in; so I provided your blog to the group. The group felt your words help to get the facts straight in one’s head. These kind-hearted souls are still carrying the burden of the scammer’s behavior. Your blog helps to place the blame where it belongs. Your blog helps victims and survivors to depersonalize the freak’s behavior towards them. For me understanding the asexual, deviant behavior helped me to detach. You drive home the point in your blog that it WAS ALL A LIE! Honestly, thank you for sharing your story. ~ L.P. “Sociopaths’ Sex Lives” and “Sociopaths’ Sexual Boundaries“

Wow. Thank you so much. That was very good and helps me a lot. I really appreciate your time. ~ T.J.

There’s nothing like the bravery, strength, and absolute amazing-ness of the human beings who pull themselves from the darkness and destruction of a true love scam. I send you all joy, wisdom, and happiness!

Thank you all!!

Sending all good things, Jennifer Smith

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