Listeners, Readers, and Clients Say…

You have been so great to talk to tonight. ~ O.S.

Unflnching honestly, laser precision. A rich, supportive beeline straight to the only conclusion comparable with thriving and healing after this kind of abuse. This podcast is a gift. ~ teach2reach234 on Apple Podcasts

I don’t think I would be where I am if I hadn’t found you and learned from you, and I’m still learning. Thanks for all you are doing to raise awareness of these monsters. ~ J.S.

After our first session, I was left feeling very empowered, and I’m excited to continue the conversation! You’re one of the only people out there who understands this like this… I think you’re the only person. I’m very glad to have talked to you. You have a way of simplifying the pieces and elements. Take options off the table. ~ G.D.

Because of your podcast, I’ve realized that I’ve spent my whole adult life [in relationships with] narcissists/sociopaths. I’m very grateful for the work you’re doing. ~ C.P.

Everything you say is spot on. Your podcast is a lifesaver. What scares me is I’m not stupid. But these guys are. He is a cop…a predator from the day I met him. There was no “working it out”. Thank you for talking about this. ~ C.P.

Hi Jennifer, I love your podcast, I only just got into it! ~ N.O.

I love your content and the valuable insights you share with every post, article, podcast, and private session. You probably hear that from everyone, but one thing you may not get often that I also love about you is that your content is clean. So many people just fill their messages up with profanity. I love that you have solid information delivered without vulgarity or profanity. In a world where that’s nearly a lost art, you shine. ~ J.B.

This is a useful page for understanding the true nature of the ex ~ J.D.

Ohmygoodness!! This is the only one site that mentions that a narcissistic person has no smell!! I always find it odd that my husband almost has no smell!! It doesn’t make sense to those that do not experience this. I get it now. I have a science background and this makes sense; the predatory quality also shows up in this part of his being. – I need to read your book! ~ V.M.

Man. Finally some real answers. ~ N.D.

These sessions are the only thing that is helping. You have no idea. Thank you so much. ~ K.R.

The more I read your posts, the more it all starts making sense. Thank you!! ~ J.P.

You have no idea how much you just opened my eyes. ~ J.A.

Ten years of treatment for abuse with forensic therapists and no one could explain this until you. ~ A.P.

You helped me more in one conversation than all the other people I spoke to about narcissists put together ~ L.B.

Oh gosh.. I’ve never heard it put this way, but using the term “discarded” REALLY DOES feel icky. I understand that it’s somewhat necessary to recognize that narcissists and narcopaths, sociopaths view people as “OBJECTS” though, but we AREN’T!  They didn’t “discard” us. Step into your POWER! 💪🏽😊 ~ P.E.

Thank you for your kind words and thank you for your site!!! ~ P.R.

A HUGE THANK YOU to True Love Scam Recovery: Survive a Sociopath for this one today, and for changing the world with us! ~ Empowered and Beautiful FB page

Thank you so much!! You have no idea how much your help means! ~ M.M.

There isn’t much advice out there beyond recognizing what has happened to you and going no contact. After you do that, what do you do with all of those overwhelming unexpressed feelings and emotions? Thanks again for the help. This is beyond anything else out there. ~ T.

Thank you, I’ve been feeling like a doormat for her.
Please continue sharing the posts you make. It saved me I feel. ~ M.G. (MALE)

This page has given me a lot of insight. Thank you! ~ J.P. (Facebook page)

Thank you for the amazing posts and info you share. ~ C.M.

This is my first time hearing this. Mind Blown. Yet again. ~ K.R 

Love the content you share!!! Very insightful!! And soooo spot on. ~ J.R.

I greatly respect your continual efforts to reach out to others. I don’t know if anyone has told you this so I will: you are a heroine! ~ D.S.

I felt good sharing my experience even though I don’t know you. You and your page is more than awesome. Your articles helped me a lot. I am seeing things clear as I was blinded by him. I reported and blocked him again. Glad that you are sharing your experiences and helping with victims like me. I discovered his true colors. Thank you once again! ~ B.R.

You have no idea how much you just opened my eyes! ~ J.A. 

What a fantastic website… Our story has so many similarities I wondered if we were married to the same man!! ~ K.S.

I’m doing really well. I just wanted to say thank you and I think of you often and talk about you to friends who ask about my last year and the journey of it. I hope you’re doing well and if I meet anyone in the future that needs your help, I will definitely refer them to you. ~ K.L.

Thank you! My eyes are fully open. ~  R.D.

I appreciate you so much, your voice of reason the validation and all of it propels me forward. ~ R.W

I’m learning so much from you. I already feel so much better after talking a few times. I don’t blame myself anymore or question myself. I’ve been through 5 or 6 therapists. They don’t get it. ~ J.S.

The best advice so far! Thank you.~ M.P.

Thank you so much for the encouragement. I thought I was going crazy for the longest time. Finding others who could articulate the same hellish experiences I’d gone through was enlightening. I’m trying to survive the ‘love of my life’. That sentence should never need to be said. There’s something diabolical in the ability to use another’s love against them. ~ M.

Thank you so much!!!! You are my lifeline <3 Thanks for educating people. ~ C.B.

Your site amazes me. Your dedication is profound, your capacity to pierce through intrigues me. I see in your writing great compassion for yourself and others in the midst of all. You are blessed and your sharing with the world is a great gift. ~ M.E.

Thank you for your kind words and support. Your blog focuses on the con man/love scam and the ptsd it causes. This is exactly what I needed. I needed more tools for recovery, to move on with my life. I’m amazed at the personal growth and changes in myself. I’m a new person with confidence and something extra. ~ L.L.

I am healing my wounds with your wisdom and words. You have truly been a lighthouse for me during a time steeped in darkness. Keep sending your light. ~ P.

I love how your page is so different from the other support pages. So straightforward and no-nonsense approach. Though you support the victim you want them to step into their power by defeating the abuser. Don’t let the abuser have an inch! I love it. Shout out to whoever runs this page. You’re a badass!! ~ S.J.

I love, love, love reading your emails and the links. When I’m having a moment I reread your email. I know it will get easier it just takes time and realizing who and what he really is. I want to thank you again. Thank you for the information. You don’t understand how helpful and comforting your words are right now. It’s EXACTLY what I need, when I feel like I’m falling apart. Thank you! ~ A.O.

Hi, Thanks for your site. It’s really helping. Seven weeks out and three weeks no contact. It’s getting better. God bless you all xx  ~ M. K. – Male reader

Thank you so much for your support. It’s Priceless. It’s all coming together. Wish it didn’t have to be so painful. ~ J.M.

Thanks for your page – it really has helped me heal from the nightmare that was my sociopath and I didn’t know for a long time what had even happened. So again, thanks! ~ A.G.

Thank you. ~ L.C.

Good day, I just ended a 10+ year relationship with a Sociopath which honestly until I kicked him out and started to google some of the “issues” in our relationship did all of this information come up about Sociopaths/Narcs/etc. I am so grateful to sites like yours and I wish to start a physical support group in __ .  I personally was not even aware that such HORRIBLE entities walk among us and look totally normal, personally after my ordeal, some days as I am still too raw. I feel they should glow in the dark or something!! 🙂 Namaste. ~ B. (Narcissist vs Sociopath vs Happy)

Another great read. Thank you so much! ~ S.G. No Contact: Leaving a Pathological Parasite

Thank you so much for this insightful article. I am in awe of its message. ~ E.B.

Thank you so much …a one-stop-shop for the resources needed to heal from having had someone like this in my life… and my healing journey continues… Thank you : ) ~ K.A. – Male reader

Thanks for making this. I spent 5 years lost part of my soul, financial resources I could write a book. 🙁 ~ A.

I had a few sessions with you earlier this year. I just have finally taken the time to read this most recent email you sent about boundaries. It’s just so awesome, all the information in there. But more importantly, I just wanted to check in to say hi and tell you how much you did for me in that short period of time. It’s because of you I got the money separated and the accounts separated. That was key to be able to begin separation, moving forward  and healing. ~ K.L.

This was so helpful. This is awesome. This is unbelievable. I feel so relieved I’m gonna cry.K.E.

Hi, I have been reading your site & I LOVE IT. I can’t stop reading it’s BRILLIANT. ~ F.

I’m trying to survive the ‘love of my life’. That sentence should never need to be said. There is something diabolical in the ability to use another’s love against them. To turn their heart inside out. To know you’ve destroyed another person’s coping mechanism and called it love. It’s malevolent. It’s inherently evil and sadistic to feed off the very souls of the ones who trust you the most. ~ M.

Awesome articles. ~ J.K.

3 Powerful Ways to Rewire Trauma” I am so happy to have found your link Jennifer….thank you! ~ N.W.

I loved it!! I actually love all of your posts. I haven’t even met you.  But your understanding of me is so crazy and spot on! I seriously was in a black hole! And you responding to me with knowledge and words you put it. Helped me, more then you will ever know. I did go to a therapist last week and he kept showing me to quit living in the past. To live in the here and now.  And every time I wonder about him and her i am living in the past. That helped a lot too! Between you and him I can’t tell who I love more! Lol. I wish I could hug you!!! If you ever come to Vegas you HAVE to let me buy you dinner. Thank you so much for all your time and compassion.  I seriously don’t know where I would be right now without it. Have a great Sunday!! ~ A.O.

The first lines of this, “Loving a Sociopath“, filled me with love! Thank you! So often I sat dazed and confused and asked “why me?” Finally understanding there have been several sociopaths in my life. They target me BECAUSE I SHINE!  “High octane goodness” LOVE IT!! ~ N.P.

Thank you, Jennifer for your emails and all the hard work you have done to help others and bring this crime to light. ~ C.

This is the third time I fell for a con man. Thanks for your website. I appreciate your candid/direct writing style. I’m just getting out of a seven month relationship with a sociopath, I ended it last Thursday. Thanks again for the help you’re offering victims. ~ M.

Great post today! All about the a-z girlfriends… it was AMAZING  and helped me at the right exact moment. Thanks for all your time and posts! They are great. ~ A.O.

Hey there! Just finished reading your article on PTSD After a Sociopath and really loved it. I just wanted to point out – and maybe your site is designed for women – but this happens to all of us. Women to men, men to men, women to women. I am a gay man who was thrown away by a P 6 months ago and the issues are the same in many ways. Just a comment – great job! ~ J., Male reader

Your website is what gave me the most consolation and understanding…Thanks for all you are doing and for your website. ~ E.R.

I am well on the way of healing but sometimes I need some inspiration. Very interesting posts. Thank you. ~ C.

Thanks Jennifer!!!! I have to say that in the moment I found the strength to break up, I physically felt better. Immediately. I did not cry anymore (I was crying every single day and night for the past 7 months, when I started seeing the reality), the anxiety stopped, the nightmares stopped…all good signs that it is the right way to go. I still feel ashamed and stupid for letting an idiotic asshole do this to me, to allow him that much. I am working on these feelings by reading your articles and rationalizing. By telling myself that he should be ashamed , not me. By telling myself that if he ‘chose’ me is because he saw soft heart, generosity, care…all good things i have to be proud of…all good things he took advantage of… Thank you again for your time, your opinions, your story; thank you for your website, so far the best ‘cure’ for me, together with the words of a couple of other girls he recently tried to charm and that I manage to contact…It made me feel understood and gave me a sense of consolation. Thanks and have a lovely day 🙂 ~ E.

Great post! It’s always good to read something that makes sense of the nonsense and gives clarity – thank you. ~ D.F. 10 Signs our Spouse is a Sociopath

I love your page. You are right, people should stop calling these creatures “narcissists” ~ E.R.

Thank you for your thorough and very informative answer. This is life saving. ~ D.S.

This site is saving me. Thank you for all your hard work and sharing. ~ S.

Sociopaths’ Other Women” Thank you so much for this article. It’s life giving! This is exactly what the sociopath did to me! ~ J.G.

This article is probably a perfect representation I’ve read of a life I once lived. ~ N.C. Sociopaths’ Other Women

 Your articles are incredibly helpful and I wish I had seen them long before this. ~ J.M.

Thank you. You have opened my eyes. I’ve Identified with your help, what has happened to me: I’ve spent my entire life with sociopaths. As liberating as it is painful I will be forever grateful for this revelation. Thank you. I know I’m barely at the beginning of healing and there are some dark days ahead but I have not felt I was on the right path till now. Thank you so much. I’m going to need as much help as I can get. ~ L.C.

It’s not a situation I ever imagined myself in. But reading the articles I know I am not alone and actually meet people almost everyday who have met or been involved with one. I was glad to have been told about your blog and now am on the road of learning the signs and red flags to watch out for!! ~ K.M.

I found your site to be extremely helpful, well written and easy on the eyes to navigate. Most particularly your discussion on PTSD was enlightening and comforting in many respects. I have discovered through this experience that there are few who really do understand and those who simply choose to blame the victim. Thank you for the insight and advice. ~ M.A.

Thank you. ~ J.

Ameeeeeen. I needed this soooooo much! Thank you! ~ A.D.

Thank you 🙂 I also just recently read your blogs on Rebuild Health After a Sociopath and the one you recently e-mailed as well; I loved them. Please know that your writing is very helpful <3  It brings me hope and it lets me know that I am not alone. Also, although I eat healthy, I definitely don’t eat that much recently after my breakup; even my parents have noticed. I will try my best to get back to eating normal again and at the same time always thinking healthy foods… with your experience you are making a difference in other victim’s lives. Thank you for all your help. I hope you have a good night 🙂 ~ J.G.

I want to thank you for your supportive words in your website. ~ J.G.

Thank you for this info…I need it. ~ D.E.

Thanks for the articles! Gives me so much clarity and info. ~ L.C.

You are helping people all around the world. Every single day, someone is reading your book, your website, your posts and your responses. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You go, girl!!! 🙏❤️ ~ D.S.

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